What to do to the HAIR?

P/S: Choco forgive me for using this photo and I already cover it with a PINKY heart :P

My hair looks normal in the above picture and YES...it does~HOWEVER I have no idea how to keep it smooth and non-frizzy...(I'm saying that I look like a lion most of the time ==")

THUS...

I tied everything up so that this problem won't bother me that much coz I still wanna keep it long~

so this is how it looks like...YES I have VERY TALL and WIDE forehead ><

day by day...I feel damn frustrated with this kind of tied up hair coz my can feel my scalp is kinda tiring...like it's a relief when you release it, so I'm afraid that i'm harming my scalp. BUT WHAT TO DO they look so frizzy and unhealthy ><

I even dare not to keep bangs coz it makes me looks KIDDO and hard to manage since my hair doesn't own straight genes, always curve at some part so in order to make it looks good actually took me time and effort to blow it straighten it or whatever"

SIGH...

a friend of mine told me there's a place that provide hair straightening service but end up with a great results which the hair won't be too flat or what...but naturally straight and fluffy~awwwww~but i'm afraid that it will be another results on my head...then mai "jiak lakk"? aiksss~why so difficult one ><"

any idea PEEPs?

shall I try or not...siGH!!